An Update …

No, I have not fallen off the face of the Earth.  No, I have not given up blogging.  Early in February my Grandma was admitted to the critical care unit of the local hospital.  To be blunt, for a while it did not look good at all.  Fortunately she is doing much better and was transferred to the skilled nursing area of the hospital.  Watching everything unfold with my Grandma has only reconfirmed my belief that my Grandma is quite possibly the strongest woman I know – and one of the most giving.  I’m sharing this because I’ve been dividing my time between work and the hospital, as well as spending time with family, running errands, and gearing up for the camping/canoeing season.

I miss writing, I miss blogging, and I just need to do it.  Unfortunately I tend to over-think anything I write here.  That needs to change.  There is much going on in my life that I would like to share here.  Moving back to my hometown after living elsewhere for well over a decade continues to amuse me.  Each day I am more grateful than the last for the wonderful childhood I had.  Much more soon.

Lindsey

Spin The Plate On Tour With Walker Author Tours: An Interview With Donna Anastasi

Today we have an author interview with Donna Anastasi, author of Spin the Plate, who is currently on tour with Walker Author Tours. Enjoy, and don’t forget to pick up your copy of Spin the Plate!

What are your habits when you sit down to create? Do you have to be in a certain room? outside? Music playing? The inspiration part happens when I’m driving or walking and my mind is relaxed and wandering. The ideas happen at random moments so I’ve always carried a small notebook. More recently I’ve been using the notebook or recorder feature on my iphone. The writing part happens when I’m alone and things are quiet. Any place will do. I usually write an hour at a time between other obligations. But when I’m just starting to pull it together or getting near the end, I’ll go away by myself and hole up for a day or weekend for concentrated writing.

 

Where do you find inspiration for your books? The inspiration for me for fiction work finds me and demands to be written. For non-fiction it is more a intellectual decision to write about something that I’m an expert on that doesn’t have good or detailed enough coverage.

Do movies inspire you and if so, which ones? Yes! I am a movie-aholic. I had one job where I took a bus into Boston everyday and watched 3-4 movies a week. I love movies that are a bit off beat, have characters with great chemistry that aren’t perfect but that you bond with anyways, are intelligent or clever, and teach or remind you of important truths that perhaps help you be a bit of a better person. Just a few of my recently watched favorites are Les Mis, About a Boy, I Am, Catfish, Death to Smoochy. Primal Fear is my most watched movie. Silver Lining Playbook is my newest favorite. I also loved 50-50.

I write reviews and make listmania lists on Amazon of films and books that I like. If you share my tastes you can check these out here:

REVIEWS: https://www.amazon.com/gp/pdp/profile/A3OXW1R2RMDXBX?ie=UTF8&ref_=cm_cr_dp_pdp

LISTS: https://www.amazon.com/gp/pdp/profile/A3OXW1R2RMDXBX?ie=UTF8&ref_=cm_cr_dp_pdp

Have you ever had a moment that you felt like quitting writing? Why? No, because I don’t do it professionally which gives me the luxury to pick it up and put it down as I want. I do have different feelings toward my novel at different times and these feelings run the full gamut.

 

Do you think that the future is ebook or print? ebook. Books are going to go the way of the newspaper. That makes me sad. Nothing like the smell and feel of a “real” book in your hands.

Tell us about your book.

This book is not your usual bodice-ripper romance where an unnaturally gorgeous heroine meets a buff, alpha-male for hot nasty sex.

Not even close.

Jo is a survivor of a bleak and abusive childhood. She channels her pain and rage into weight training and roams the city streets at night as a powerful vigilante. While she is more than capable of defending herself against physical danger, she is defenseless against the memories of the past that torment her.

Francis is a mysterious man she meets on the subway train. He doesn’t have a regular job and is still living at home. But he is gentle, likeable, friendly, intelligent, sensitive, respectful, generous, patient, and understanding. Just what a brave, but damaged soul like Jo needs.

In this story, the average-guy hero battles to win the battered heart of the wary, edgy, less-than-perfect heroine.

“Spin the Plate is a fast-paced, edgy, darkly comic tale of resilience, romance, and redemption that breaks over you in waves. All you can do is gasp, stay afloat, and enjoy the ride.”
– Holly Robinson, author of The Wishing Hill and Sleeping Tigers

 

Where can we find out more about you and buy your book?

The novel is offered as a free ebook from Smashwords, Barnes and Noble, and iTunes, and is a 99 cent kindle ebook. It is available in paperback from Amazon and Barnes and Noble. Make sure to get the January 2013 (full length novel) version titled “Spin the Plate: A Novel.” More information about me and the book can be found at www.spintheplate.com.

 

Why I Write: Every Life Has A Story

Let’s start at the very beginning: Why Write At All? « The Collaborative Writer

As of late I’ve come across some great material that got me thinking about why I write in the first place.  The article above from The Collaborative Writer gets it exactly right.  I admit it:  I am my own worst enemy.  I tend to over-think everything and spend too much time planning what I’d like to do when I really should be writing.  I.  Just.  Need.  To.  Write.  Why is that so difficult in practice?

The thing is that I truly believe everyone has a story.  No one has a perfect life.  Everyone is struggling with something and conflict is the heart of any great story.  Not only does that simple premise – everyone has a story – get to the heart of why I write, it is also the reason why I love to read.  I am drawn to biographies and autobiographies or any good plot driven by realistic conflicts dealt with by well-rounded characters.

Again, I keep going back to asking myself why it has to be so hard.  I love to create.  I know what I like to write.  I always feel more myself when I write.  Why don’t I write more?  I think we all need to ditch the excuses.

The video included below I came across as part of training for my position as a clerk.  I love the message of the video.  It is all too easy to forget that everyone is struggling with something.

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2012 In Review

I meant to post this earlier, but better late than never.  By the way, the most viewed post of 2012 happens to be my absolute favorite.  Click below to check it out!

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

4,329 films were submitted to the 2012 Cannes Film Festival. This blog had 15,000 views in 2012. If each view were a film, this blog would power 3 Film Festivals

Click here to see the complete report.

32 …

I turned 32 yesterday.  While I’m not exactly where I thought I’d be at this age, I am where I need to be.  There is a reason why I haven’t blogged much over the last couple of months.  I recently moved back to my hometown in order to care for my Grandma, who will be 88 in January.  In the midst of the move, I also changed jobs.  I still work for the same company, but I now work part-time.  Instead of managing a convenience store, I am now working once again as a cashier.  I also moved stores in order to make it all work.  So far, so good.

And since everyone who knows me has asked:  Yes, Brian and I are still together.  That’s the hardest part of it all.  Brian and I are still very much in love; it is just that much harder to spend any time with him.  We lived together for eight years, and I thought we’d be married for several years by now.  I also thought that I’d own a home, have my career at least on the right track, and even possibly have the adoption process started.

So where did I go wrong?  I’ve asked myself that very question several times over the last few years, and I still have no answers.  All I can say is this:  Everything happens for a reason.  Right now I have a fresh start.  And I have to admit, I am closer to achieving some of my dreams than I have been in a very long time.

Welcome September

I’m hoping to make some decisions regarding my writing soon.  I need a fresh start.  I have all these wonderful ideas, and then they just fall away because I don’t make the time to follow through.  I can do so much better.

Facebook, Twitter, and GoodReads ~ Oh My

Lately I’ve been spending my time filling out the Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde Facebook page, which you can find here.  I’m hoping to eventually create a community there that wants to have in depth conversations.  Right now, as I’ve just set up the discussion boards, I’m having a conversation with myself!  I visualize it as a place for readers to plug their blogs, discuss what books they just finished, and share ideas as to what they’d like to see here.  I want to make Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde truly interactive.  Currently I have 50 members, myself included.  There is always room for one more.

In addition to finally fleshing out the Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde facebook page, I’ve also spent some time developing my Twitter account, @russelllindsey.  If you take the time to follow me, I follow you back.  Currently Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde, each and every post, is broadcast to 162 Twitter followers.

Twitter and Facebook aside, I’ve also gone through my GoodReads account.  You can find me on Goodreads here.  While I don’t have the details right now, a conversation or two I had on GoodReads may have a huge impact on the future of Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde.  Stay tuned!

Even though it has taken me a lot longer than I would’ve liked, I’m glad I’m finally starting to truly use social media to promote Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde.  So, I’m curious – to all those writers out there:  What social media sites are you using?  How often do you use it?  How do you create an audience for your work?  I’d love to hear about all of your experiences.  Good, Bad, and Ugly.

 

Summer Reading/Summer Blogging

English: Photo of Bonnie Jo Campbell (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

As usual, I’m not sure where to begin.  This summer has personally held some nasty surprises for what passes for my life.  Then again, I suppose I have to start somewhere if I am going to achieve anything at all.  I’ll spare everyone the details for now, so I’ll get right to the point.

Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde has unfortunately suffered as a result.  I’m trying to get things back on track.  It just may take a while.  I’ve sorely neglected the feature that inspired so much this year:  My Life In Pop Culture.  I’ve also neglected to do my part for two new blogging award nominations I received as of late.  Blogging awards are a wonderful way to show appreciation to those bloggers nearest and dearest to your heart.  I’m honored to have received them.  Thank you for the nominations!  I’m looking forward to correcting this error on my part as soon as possible.  Also, I’ve been haphazard in sharing some of my favorite bloggers here.  I’m finding it difficult to balance my own blog posts with reblogging wonderful posts from the likes of Childhood Relived.  I somehow have to strike a balance.  I love creating my own content, of course; at the same time, I come across so many wonderful/funny/inspiring posts, I instinctively want to share it with the most wonderful audience of all:  my readers.  When I reblog, I do it out of sheer admiration.  I just want everyone, readers and bloggers alike, to realize that fact.

And then there are books.  I’m not sure if many of you’ve paid attention to my running reading list stuck to the top of my blog, but I’ve had my nose stuck in various books for the last two months.  It can be blamed on learning how to borrow e-books for my Nook Color from the Bay County Library System.  I’m getting a lot of mileage out of my Nook Color.  I love it to the point where I’m seriously considering asking for a Kindle Fire for Christmas and/or my birthday.  I love to compare/contrast.  It isn’t that I favor e-books over hardcovers or well-loved paperbacks – nothing will ever replace the feel and heft of a physical book – I just read that much more with an e-reader.  My next experiment:  Audio books on my laptop and/or Nook Color.  This may sound stupid, but at times I wish I could commute via Metro instead of having to personally drive 40 minutes each way to work every day.  Think of the reading time I could get in if I lived in a large city!  Ah well.

The books I’ve read so far this summer will have a lasting impact on me, my writing, everything.  I love them that much!  Each one deserves its own post and review.  The problem is that I never feel I do a book justice when I review it.  I always seem to leave something important unsaid – and that infuriates me.  Just don’t be surprised if I finally establish a series of book reviews here.

I hope to soon create a flexible schedule/outline for content.  Stay tuned, as always.  I still plan a series on Linda McCartney’s photography, Paul McCartney himself, and more.  That, of course, doesn’t even begin to cover politics.  I also, regrettably, haven’t written a personal post about Turner Syndrome, outlined my thoughts on reproductive rights, and so much more.  I just need to get organized and go for it.  What saddens me is that people are clicking on those links to Turner Syndrome and Reproductive Rights only to find nothing there.

By the way, I’m well on the way to achieving my reading goals for the year.  I’ve read 17 of the 25+ e-books I pledged to read in 2012.  I’ve read a total of 28 books, both traditional and e-books, out of the 60 I hope to read in 2012.  With five months to go, my goals are in sight!  That is a wonderful feeling after coming so close to my goal of 48 in 2011.  Oh, and congrats to Bonnie Jo Campbell, one my favorite Michigan authors and the author of one of my favorite books, Once Upon A River.  Once Upon A River was selected as a 2012 Michigan Notable Book!  Well deserved.  I discuss Once Upon A River here.

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Yep, I’m Still Here

It’s been an interesting spring/early summer, to say the least.  Despite my best intentions and carefully laid plans, I seem to be getting nowhere.  This is the quietest I’ve been in a while.  All I can do at this point is charge ahead.  Isn’t that all any of us can do?  Well, I’ll spare you the details of my off-line life.  Suffice to say things aren’t going as planned, nothing ever does.

As always, I have a lot planned here @ Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde.  First up is a small tribute to my Dad.  It is Father’s Day after all.  Also, today I was pleasantly surprised to learn Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde has been nominated for another blogging award, once again, by Becoming Madame.  More details and a post to follow.

Things become more interesting all the time.  So much to say, so little time.

My Fab Four

Over the last several months, I’ve finally started to discover a group of bloggers I really love.  The voice, the tone, the humor, along with a healthy dose of admiration keeps me coming back day after day.  If I were to put together a super group of humor bloggers who revel in discussing childhood memories, good and bad, this would be my Fab Four:

Childhood Relived

It all began with Freshly Pressed.  Thanks to Freshly Pressed, Angie Z. of Childhood Relived is responsible for my “discovery” of several of the blogs below.  Childhood Relived serves up a humorous look back at childhood way back in the 1980s.  She covers all the essentials, including 80s fashion, Cabbage Patch Kid dolls, Teddy Ruxpin, ShowBiz Pizza, as well as Poltergeist.  I can’t get enough.  Her humor is wonderful.  If you long for the days of jelly shoes and bracelets, you owe it to yourself to check it out.  Her latest piece is a priceless look at Richard Simmons.  Enjoy!

What the . . . Richard Simmons? « Childhood Relived

Once A Little Girl

Once A Little Girl is the only one of the Fab Four I didn’t come across thanks to Angie Z.  Nope; it was fate instead.  I just happened to be browsing WordPress when I happened across Adela’s Once A Little Girl.  It was love at first sight, but more on that in a minute.  Adela not only grew up in Michigan, she also happens to be the aunt of a childhood classmate.

Now on to why I love Once A Little Girl so much.  First and foremost, Adela’s voice throughout the blog is pitch-perfect.  At times it is easy to forget her pieces are written from the perspective of an adult chronicling her childhood memories.  The voice that comes across in each post is that of a wide-eyed child who happens to have the distance and knowledge to realize just how meaningful childhood memories can be.  It is unique.  I can only hope to do half as well.  Once A Little Girl is sweet, not saccharine.  Do yourself a favor and check out some of her reoccurring features.  I’m honored to have guest-posted.

Once a Little Girl Friends « Once A Little Girl

Little Girls: Then and When « Once A Little Girl

The Middlest Sister | There are 5 sisters. She’s the middlest.

The Middlest Sister is the most unique blog I’ve ever come across.  It is part comic strip, part blog, and all painfully true.  My love of The Middlest Sister led to a few unexpected surprises along the way.  Back in February, as my Mom and I continued work on her series of children’s books, I introduced my Mom to The Middlest Sister.  As the middle sister in a family of five girls, I knew my Mom could relate.  Thanks to the The Middlest Sister, my Mom now has a basic appreciation for blogs, even though she does not yet fully understand the concept of someone working so hard on a project without compensation.

So, what is all the fuss about?  Frankly, there just isn’t anything out there today similar to The Middlest Sister.  Nicole spends each week crafting each new comic strip and/or post.  You have to see for yourself.  On top of the uncanny crafting of each post, the scenario depicted each week will leave an empathetic smile on your face if you have any siblings at all.  The trial and tribulations depicted in each new comic are timeless experiences of childhood.  They ring true whether you are 60 or 6.  The Middlest Sister rightfully gained some recognition recently.  See the link below for more details:

About | The Middlest Sister

All Copyrights belong to The Middlest Sister ~ 2012
Nicole’s interpretation of yours truly. I love it!

Go Guilty Pleasures!

The newest kid on the block in my universe, Jules of Go Guilty Pleasures! shamelessly brings back the side pony (or as my family called it, the side tail) and slap bracelet.  How could I not help but include her here, especially after learning of her affection for chipmunks and enjoying every minute of her feature on Childhood Relived?  Check it out here and/or here.  The entire premise of Go Guilty Pleasures! is something I can support.  Why not indulge in what makes us happy, as long as it is legal and doesn’t hurt anyone?

Honorable Mentions:

Below is a list of blogs I visit regularly and love.  I didn’t include them above simply because they do not focus on childhood antics and/or nostalgia.

My Pajama Days

A great family blog by a fellow Michigander, I love Emily’s candor when discussing her own challenges, as well as experiences as a Mom of a teenager.  She may not know it, but My Pajama Days helped set me in the right direction when I looked to grow Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde earlier in the spring.  I simply began looking into some of the blogging communities featured at the bottom of her blog.  A few seemed a perfect fit and set me on my way.  Emily, thank you.

Becoming Madame

If I am ever an expat living in Spain or South America, one of the first things I’d do is set up a blog chronicling all of my experiences living abroad.  Of course, I’d have to model the blog after Becoming Madame.  If you’ve ever dreamed of living in France, Becoming Madame is a wonderful resource for all things Parisian.

Robin Coyle

Robin Coyle happened to be my biggest cheerleader throughout 2012 A to Z Blogging Challenge: Beatles Edition.  She is as almost as big of fan of the Beatles, Paul McCartney in particular, as I am.  Most importantly, her blog is a fantastic resource for writers.  I will be sharing and commenting on some of her posts in the near future.  If you are a writer or even think that you may one day want to write, you need to check out Robin Coyle.

free penny press

free penny press is probably the blog most similar to Ramblings of a Misguided Blonde in that Lynne features whatever catches her fancy on free penny press.  Her blog is gorgeous, well-done, and always interesting.  Her latest post brings wonderful news:  Her brother is coming home from Afghanistan!  Check it out.  He’s coming home « free penny press

Little Girl Feet (Photo credit: mtsofan)

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